relationshipAbusive Partner
#RI-6a6b079b·7 months ago·
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“Ignoring red flags in a 3-year relationship”
What Actually Happened
My girlfriend gets extremely angry over minor things, says hurtful things, threatens to leave, and blocks me. I keep forgiving her because of the good times and because it's my first relationship.
What I wish I knew
"Red flags in relationships can be hard to see, but ignoring them can lead to more harm."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't ignore red flags, even if the relationship is good most of the time. It's better to end a relationship that's unhealthy than to stay in it and regret it later."
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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relationship Category
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Same Outcome Band
73%
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