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#RI-69ba75d5·4 months ago·
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Dated him for 4 months despite intuition

His feelings fade when we're apart, but he falls in love again when he sees me

What I wish I knew
"He might be emotionally unavailable"
If I could tell you one thing
"Pay attention to your intuition and don't ignore red flags"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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