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#RI-69aa84e3·3 months ago·
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My bf's jokes about his ex are making me uncomfortable

I feel dumb and angry after discovering my bf's ex's name is the same as his 'other gf' joke

What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew the truth about his relationship with his ex"
If I could tell you one thing
"Be cautious of partners who joke about their exes in a way that makes you uncomfortable"
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The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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