RelationalTrust Issues
#RI-6ad1a207·5 months ago·
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“Shared childhood trauma experiences with girlfriend”
What Actually Happened
Girlfriend laughed and joked about my childhood sexual trauma, making me feel guilty for being angry
What I wish I knew
"She wouldn't react so callously to my trauma"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be more empathetic and understanding when listening to others' traumatic experiences"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relational Category
13
Relational decisions logged. Avg regret 8.4/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
85%
of Relational decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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