ParentingLoss of Identity
#RI-6ac23e9f·5 months ago·
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“had kids”
What Actually Happened
Lost spark for life and adventure with kids. Feeling depressed and a shell of my former self.
What I wish I knew
"Maybe I should've considered the impact on my identity."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Consider the potential loss of identity before having kids."
Regret Index
10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Advice for Someone Facing This
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Parenting Category
141
Parenting decisions logged. Avg regret 5.6/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
52%
of Parenting decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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