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#RI-6aa6209a·4 months ago·
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Lookback: After her baby is born

Co-parenting a child I didn't father

My ex-wife cheated and got pregnant with another man's baby. She's trying to pawn it off on me, making it hard to maintain a civil relationship.

What I wish I knew
"She would cheat and get pregnant with someone else's child before our child was born"
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't let anger cloud your judgment when co-parenting a child."
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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