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#RI-6aa0dbea·5 months ago·
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Lookback: 9 months

Lost faith in husband as father and husband

Husband's lack of tolerance for baby's crying has led to me becoming the default parent, causing resentment and trust issues

What I wish I knew
"How to rebuild trust when a partner struggles with parenting stress"
If I could tell you one thing
"Seek couples therapy or consider divorce if trust cannot be rebuilt"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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