“Ended reconciliation after lies were revealed”

Item: Ended reconciliation after lies were revealed
Rating: 0
Author: u/mycurtainsarebrown

What Actually Happened

Partner's lies were revealed after separation, causing more pain and realizing autonomy was stolen.

What I wish I knew

"Partner's true intentions and extent of infidelity sooner."

Advice to Someone Facing This Now

If I could tell you one thing

"Cut your losses and prioritize mental and physical health if your partner is not fully committed to trust and honesty."

Regret Index

10/10

High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.

SettledMixedSevere

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Relational Category

Relational decisions logged. Avg regret 8.4/10 across the category.

Same Outcome Band

85%

of Relational decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.