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#RI-69ba75fa·4 months ago·
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Lookback: 2 years into relationship

Telling white lies to avoid conflict

I often lie to my boyfriend and others without realizing it, causing trust issues in my relationship.

What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew how to manage my ADHD and communicate effectively to avoid lying"
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest and open with your partner to build trust and strengthen your relationship"
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The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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