“I stayed with a partner despite many lies and red flags.”

Item: I stayed with a partner despite many lies and red flags.
Rating: 1
Author: u/Inevitable_Cycle_340

What Actually Happened

I was in a relationship with a man who I discovered was a pathological liar. He faked a crisis and impersonated his own mother via text to manipulate me into staying with him.

What I wish I knew

"I wish I had known my partner was not who he said he was and that the relationship was built on lies."

Advice to Someone Facing This Now

If I could tell you one thing

"Do not ignore small lies and red flags, as they often point to bigger issues."

Regret Index

9/10

High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.

SettledMixedSevere

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relationships Category

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