RelationshipInfidelity
#RI-6ac1cf99·4 months ago·
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“Had threesome with boyfriend and best friend while extremely drunk”
What Actually Happened
I initiated a threesome with my boyfriend and best friend while extremely drunk. I kept getting uncomfortable and stopping things, but then restarting. Eventually, I was completely out of it and told them to go ahead without me.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had been sober and recognized my own discomfort."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"If you're feeling uncomfortable during a sexual activity, it's okay to stop and prioritize your own well-being."
Regret Index
10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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Relationship Category
370
Relationship decisions logged. Avg regret 7.3/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
73%
of Relationship decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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