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#RI-6ae8a149·about 2 months ago·
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“Divorcing after 20 years”

Caught wife cheating on our sofa, ended 20-year marriage

What I wish I knew
"Loyalty and honesty are non-negotiable"
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't forgive and forget, prioritize self-respect"
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High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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