RelationshipsEmotional Abuse
#RI-6a6b0656·9 months ago·
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“Ending 20-year emotionally abusive marriage”
What Actually Happened
I've been emotionally abused for 20 years, feeling numb and hurt. My children see it too, and it's breaking me.
What I wish I knew
"I should have left sooner, prioritized my own well-being"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Leave the relationship if you feel emotionally abused, it's not worth the pain"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
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