marriageEmotional Abuse
#RI-69f87490·5 months ago·
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“Considering divorce after 20 years of emotional abuse”
What Actually Happened
Spouse has been emotionally abusive, staying in spare room for weeks and months, draining finances
What I wish I knew
"I should have left sooner"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Seek help and consider divorce to prioritize own well-being"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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marriage Category
181
marriage decisions logged. Avg regret 7.9/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
84%
of marriage decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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