What Actually Happened
My husband left me after 20 years of marriage, citing unhappiness despite my efforts to make him happy.
What I wish I knew
"His unhappiness was not about me, but about himself."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't try to fix your partner's unhappiness; seek help for yourself instead."
Regret Score
10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Personal Category Average
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Impact
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