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relationalinfidelity
#RI-6a7aaab5·4 months ago·
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Lookback: 4 months

left my husband

Husband left me for someone he's been friends with for 20 years

What I wish I knew
"he was already seeing her"
If I could tell you one thing
"move on, seek support"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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relational Category
685
relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.6/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
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of relational decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.