RelationshipFatphobia in partner
#RI-6aef195d·3 months ago·
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“Disclosed boyfriend's fatphobic tendencies”
What Actually Happened
Boyfriend's comments made me self-conscious about my weight and triggered unhealthy eating habits
What I wish I knew
"He had underlying fatphobic feelings before we started dating"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly with your partner about their biases and how they affect you"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationship Category
370
Relationship decisions logged. Avg regret 7.3/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
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