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#RI-6abddb12·7 months ago·
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“Boyfriend snapped at me for speaking native language to cat”

Boyfriend snapped at me for speaking native language to cat, citing past trauma

What I wish I knew
"His past trauma might be deeper than I thought"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly about past experiences and their impact on current relationships"
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