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#RI-6ac8e1e9·6 months ago·
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“Dated new boyfriend hoping for better sex”

Struggling to reach orgasm with new boyfriend, despite open communication

What I wish I knew
"Maybe I'm too focused on it"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and try different approaches"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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