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#RI-6ab8fbb7·7 months ago·
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Lookback: 9 months into the relationship

“met her ultimatum to avoid conflict”

girlfriend snapped at me over a tight timeline and made me meet her at work

What I wish I knew
"her social anxiety and RBF were triggers"
If I could tell you one thing
"don't meet ultimatums, stay calm"
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6/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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