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#RI-6a6b0875·7 months ago·
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“I stayed in a toxic relationship”
What Actually Happened
My ex exhibited avoidant behaviors, including quickly moving on and cutting me out of social circles, while also criticizing me and blaming me for the relationship's problems.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had recognized his avoidant tendencies sooner and set boundaries earlier"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't settle for a partner who makes you feel bad about yourself and prioritize your own emotional well-being"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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ex relationship Category
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ex relationship decisions logged. Avg regret 8/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
100%
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