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friendshipmisunderstood dress code
#RI-6ab3ad0a·4 months ago·
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“wore white to all black birthday dinner”

Wore white top to friend's all black birthday dinner, leading to conflict and friendship end.

What I wish I knew
"To communicate dress code more clearly."
If I could tell you one thing
"Be clear about expectations, consider others' feelings, and apologize if needed."
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The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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