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Decisions about
Friendship.

Explore thousands of structured choices related to Friendship. Dive into what people wish they knew beforehand, tracked longitudinally.
Friendship Overview
74%
average regret rate from live outcomes. Drops significantly over time.
Insight
57
recorded outcomes in this category alone.

The Friendship Regret Curve

Detailed aggregate statistics and longitudinal curves for this category are being calculated from the dataset.

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Set boundaries to protect my peace

Shared intimate moment, felt special, but was platonic to her

Regret Level7/10

ended 10+ year friendship after sudden change

Best friend of 10+ years ended our friendship abruptly after I expressed concern about drifting apart.

Regret Level8/10

Friendship is no longer fun

She made a hurtful comment about my weight in front of others

Regret Level8/10

Slept with best friend after heavy flirting

He detached himself, said it was just a 'fuck', and hurt me with jokes

Regret Level8/10

confront my best friend about his girlfriend's potential manipulation

My best friend's girlfriend may be faking a disability to control him and gain financially

Regret Level8/10

Invested in a friendship with coworker

Friendship with coworker seems one-sided; I'm always initiating conversations

Regret Level6/10

Openly criticizing my friends for choosing convenience over effort

As my wealthy friends embraced outsourced luxury and ease, I stubbornly insisted on self-reliance and openly judged their choices. My criticism alienated them and ultimately destroyed many of my closest long-term friendships.

Regret Level6/10

starting to charge friend for services

helped friend's business with content work without charging

Regret Level8/10

Not dating friend during divorce

Friend surprised me by wanting to date after divorce, I set boundaries

Regret Level4/10

Not being asked to be MOH

Being asked to be just a bridesmaid after being MOH

Regret Level8/10

Expressed anger with friend

Friend's dad SA'd her daughter, got 1 year in prison

Regret Level8/10

Hooked up with best friend

Hooked up with best friend after she flirted with me in front of another friend.

Regret Level8/10

Set boundaries to reduce drama

Best friend accused me of not being supportive after I set boundaries to protect myself from drama

Regret Level8/10

Expected more from close friend

Friend became distant, hurt me with misunderstandings and rumors

Regret Level7/10

Ending a draining friendship

My friend's constant need for emotional support has drained me, and I feel obligated to drop everything to help her.

Regret Level8/10

left friend on read for weeks

left friend's innocent message unread, then learned of her death

Regret Level10/10

Got caught in friends' argument

Lost 2 close friends, felt isolated

Regret Level8/10

Hooked up with Ben while friends with Alex

Hooked up with Ben in hotel room, felt self-conscious about body and encounter

Regret Level8/10

Didn't confess crush

Friend moved on, got honored, and left me behind

Regret Level8/10

Hear voice message about myself

Hear friend complaining about me in accidental voice message

Regret Level8/10