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@u_RevolutionaryAsk150324 days ago
friendshipbetrayal
"cut off friend group after false accusations"
best friend falsely accused me of forcing him to jerk off together, friend group abandoned me
What I wish I knew
"they would have believed my side of the story"
Advice

"don't stay silent when someone is being wronged"

8/10 regret
0
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@u_deleted24 days ago
friendshipmaking friends
"using social media to meet people"
I met some friends online but struggle to connect in person
What I wish I knew
"how to initiate in-person conversations"
Advice

"follow people with mutual followers and engage with their content"

6/10 regret
0
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@u_Ashamed_Spare87424 days ago
friendshipLost Contact
"Forgot friend's name and face"
Forgot friend's identity, worried about awkward encounters
What I wish I knew
"Recognized them earlier"
Advice

"Pay attention to friends' details"

6/10 regret
0
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@u_ThrowRA-Bromine25 days ago
friendshipabusive
"treated friend horribly"
treated friend to self-deprecation, neglect, and perversion
What I wish I knew
"how my actions affected her"
Advice

"be honest and respectful in relationships"

10/10 regret
0
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@u_qweepher696926 days ago
friendshipUncertain Feelings
"Falling in love with a friend"
Met in high school, became close friends after break-up, developed romantic feelings
What I wish I knew
"Watched for signs of romantic interest before acting"
Advice

"Communicate feelings openly and honestly, respect the other person's boundaries"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_jenabel826 days ago
friendshiptoxic
"ended 15 year friendship by text"
ended toxic friendship after years of being blamed
What I wish I knew
"set boundaries sooner"
Advice

"end toxic relationships quickly"

1/10 regret
0
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@u_Viktorija77726 days ago
friendshipJob Opportunity
"Accepted job covering friend's maternity leave"
My friend is upset and ghosting me after I accepted a job covering her maternity leave
What I wish I knew
"How she would react to the situation"
Advice

"Communicate openly and honestly with friends about job opportunities"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_Capital-Extreme-665427 days ago
friendshipBoyfriend's research guide
"Oversharing concerns with boyfriend"
My boyfriend's research guide and I have become close friends, but I'm possessive and feel like she's taking too much time with him, especially when they travel and spend intimate time together
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew how to navigate my feelings and communicate them to my boyfriend without being too controlling"
Advice

"Don't overthink and communicate openly with your partner about your feelings and concerns"

6/10 regret
0
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@u_Potato87878627 days ago
friendshipjealousy
"feel jealous of closer friendships"
I feel like a filler in my best friend's life, overshadowed by J and N
What I wish I knew
"how to bridge the gap in our friendship"
Advice

"don't compare yourself to others in your friend group"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_Expensive-Fly836129 days ago
friendshipRelationship Advice
"Concern for friend's well-being"
Friend's toxic relationship affecting their habits
What I wish I knew
"Recognize toxic signs sooner"
Advice

"Approach with empathy, avoid judgment"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_Willing_Comfort_159729 days ago
friendshiploneliness
"made friends through buying/selling weed"
realized I don't know how to make friends outside of weed
What I wish I knew
"how to make friends without using weed"
Advice

"be genuine and find common interests"

8/10 regret
0
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@u_ProjectOdd534429 days ago
friendshipconfusing behavior
"I'm confused about my best friend's behavior"
My best friend, who's engaged, has been treating me strangely, being overly touchy and flirtatious, then suddenly stopped hanging out with me
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had set clearer boundaries"
Advice

"Be cautious of friends who are overly touchy or flirtatious, especially if they're in a relationship"

8/10 regret
0
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@u_Old-Concentrate2846about 1 month ago
friendshipunrequited feelings
"I need to address the situation"
I may have unintentionally led them on with my behavior overshadowing our friendship
What I wish I knew
"clearer boundaries and communication"
Advice

"be honest and direct, but also respectful"

8/10 regret
0
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@u_National-Inside-4281about 1 month ago
friendshipunrequited love
"I didn't express my feelings"
I developed feelings for my friend, but she had a boyfriend and later started dating someone else
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had been honest about my feelings earlier"
Advice

"Be honest about your feelings, even if it's scary"

8/10 regret
0
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@u_ThrowRA_Bestieeabout 1 month ago
friendshipromantic feelings
"consider pursuing romantic feelings"
I've developed strong feelings for my best friend, who may feel the same way
What I wish I knew
"how to navigate the situation without affecting my kid"
Advice

"be cautious and consider the potential consequences"

6/10 regret
0
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@u_JoeHartlessabout 1 month ago
friendshipUnrequited feelings
"Developed feelings for a friend"
I've been quietly building huge feelings for my friend over several weeks
What I wish I knew
"How to handle unrequited feelings without jeopardizing the friendship"
Advice

"Be honest with yourself and consider the potential consequences"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_KirikouCaribeabout 1 month ago
friendshipdifficult relationships
"telling a friend they're draining me"
friend's constant drama and invasion of my space exhausted me
What I wish I knew
"how to set boundaries sooner"
Advice

"be honest and direct when expressing concerns"

8/10 regret
0
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@u_ReSheeDaSuperSpyabout 1 month ago
friendshipMiscommunication
"Posted a joke status on private alt account"
My joke status backfired and my crush blocked me after returning ₱5k worth of gifts
What I wish I knew
"To be more considerate of my words in the future"
Advice

"Be cautious with humor in sensitive situations"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_awquardabout 1 month ago
friendshipcommunication
"Approach friend about past issues"
Friend withdrew, lashed out, and stonewalled me, causing hurt and resentment
What I wish I knew
"How to communicate effectively and set boundaries"
Advice

"Be honest and open, but also considerate of the other person's feelings and perspective"

8/10 regret
0
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@u_No_Contract_9302about 2 months ago
friendshipmaking friends in college
"trying to make friends through dating apps"
I've tried to make friends through dating apps, but it's been unsuccessful and feels cringy
What I wish I knew
"being more selective and genuine in my approach"
Advice

"be patient and don't be afraid to put yourself out there, but also know when to take a step back"

8/10 regret
0