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FriendshipOverly dependent friend
#RI-6ad49d23·5 months ago·
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“Ending a draining friendship”

My friend's constant need for emotional support has drained me, and I feel obligated to drop everything to help her.

What I wish I knew
"Setting boundaries earlier could have prevented this emotional strain."
If I could tell you one thing
"Be clear and direct when setting boundaries with friends who are overly dependent on you."
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Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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