relationalabusive grandparent
#RI-6ab21e9a·about 2 months ago·
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“I decided not to call her on her birthday”
What Actually Happened
My grandma called me ugly and fat since I was a baby and refused to pronounce my name properly
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew why she hated me so much"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't let someone's hate define your self-worth"
Regret Index
10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Advice for Someone Facing This
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relational Category
2
relational decisions logged. Avg regret 10/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
100%
of relational decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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