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#RI-6a7aa999·8 months ago·
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“Made little effort for her birthday due to hurt feelings”
What Actually Happened
My girlfriend said hurtful things during an argument, making me question our relationship. I didn't make much effort for her birthday, which upset her.
What I wish I knew
"How her words would affect me and our relationship"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and honestly, especially during conflicts"
Regret Index
6/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
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