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#RI-6af3e903·12 days ago·
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Lookback: 9 years after affair

“Discovered wife's affair through letters”

Discovered wife's affair through letters, feels deceived and hurt

What I wish I knew
"About the affair before reading the letters"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and honestly about past relationships"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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