RelationshipFriendship
#RI-6aeea26b·about 2 months ago·
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“Didn't act on feelings”
What Actually Happened
My roommate found out I liked her and she's upset with me. I feel like a terrible friend, especially since she was already feeling depressed and in bad shape.
What I wish I knew
"Being honest with her sooner would've avoided this situation."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be open and honest with your feelings, even if it's hard."
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationship Category
370
Relationship decisions logged. Avg regret 7.3/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
73%
of Relationship decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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