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#RI-69a91474·2 months ago·
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acted on attraction at work

After a brief hook up, we continued as close friends but then had sex and I expected a romantic relationship. However, she suddenly became distant and rejected my attempts to ask her out.

What I wish I knew
"she didn't feel the same way"
If I could tell you one thing
"be clear about intentions before acting on attraction"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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