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#RI-6a6b033a·9 months ago·
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“Treated boyfriend the same way he treats me”
What Actually Happened
Treated boyfriend the same way he treats me, now he's miserable and angry with me
What I wish I knew
"How he would react to being treated with the same level of distance and independence"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and honestly with your partner about your needs and boundaries"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
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