Relationshipslong distance relationship
#RI-69a910ce·4 months ago·
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“Told my boyfriend I feel unvalued”
What Actually Happened
He barely messages me when I'm away, but is sweet when I'm home
What I wish I knew
"He genuinely likes being in an LDR for the thrill"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate your feelings and set clear expectations"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
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Same Outcome Band
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