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relationaljealousy
#RI-69a91122·2 months ago·
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Struggling with insecurity and jealousy

I feel jealous that my bf kissed another girl passionately, but doesn't kiss me as passionately. I'm haunted by the memory of their kiss and compare every kiss with him to it.

What I wish I knew
"I wish I was more chill and less scared about exploring open relationships"
If I could tell you one thing
"Consider your own boundaries and comfort level before engaging in open activities"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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