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#RI-69a910a1·4 months ago·
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“Considering breaking up with my boyfriend due to insecurity issues”

My boyfriend's insecurity and judgmental behavior towards my sorority plans and future goals are causing tension in our relationship

What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew how to address his insecurities and make him understand my excitement about college"
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest and open with your partner about your feelings and goals, and try to find common ground to avoid conflicts"
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The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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