RelationshipsCommunication
#RI-6aef1b7f·4 months ago·
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“Commented on my boyfriend's preference for clean-shaven women”
What Actually Happened
My boyfriend made a rude comment about my pubic hair, making me feel insecure and upset
What I wish I knew
"How to communicate my feelings without making him feel judged"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Set clear boundaries and communicate your feelings without attacking the other person's preferences"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
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Same Outcome Band
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