relationalfamily
#RI-6ac07e0c·4 months ago·
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“wanted father to visit alone after giving birth”
What Actually Happened
father stood over me 3 days postpartum and said hurtful things
What I wish I knew
"how to communicate boundaries effectively in a stressful situation"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"set clear boundaries with loved ones to prioritize self-care"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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relational Category
129
relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.7/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
78%
of relational decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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