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RelationshipsBoyfriend's behavior on birthday
#RI-6a7aa964·24 days ago·
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left me alone on my birthday

My boyfriend left me alone on my birthday, saying he had to help at a charity event, but I later found out he was actually at a BBQ with friends

What I wish I knew
"He was dishonest with me about his plans"
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest with your partner, especially on special occasions"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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