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#RI-69aa872d·3 months ago·
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Lookback: 2 days after breakup

Sent a final 'closure message' to ex-boyfriend

Wrote a long message revealing past mistakes and feelings of regret

What I wish I knew
"He was willing to work through issues instead of hiding them"
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest and open in relationships, even if it's hard"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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relational Category
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relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.6/10 across the category.
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