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#RI-6add8039·3 months ago·
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Lookback: a couple of days after birthday

“Expected partner to plan 30th birthday”

Husband failed to plan 30th birthday, cited excuses

What I wish I knew
"He'd actually follow through on commitments"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate expectations clearly and set boundaries"
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9/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
SettledMixedSevere

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