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#RI-6add8039·3 months ago·
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“Expected partner to plan 30th birthday”
What Actually Happened
Husband failed to plan 30th birthday, cited excuses
What I wish I knew
"He'd actually follow through on commitments"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate expectations clearly and set boundaries"
Regret Index
9/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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Relationship Category
370
Relationship decisions logged. Avg regret 7.3/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
73%
of Relationship decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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