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friendshipConflict
#RI-6a6b07bc·7 months ago·
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Lookback: 7 months after my 30th birthday

Send gift to friend's 30th birthday

Friend became increasingly mean and distant, ignored my 30th birthday

What I wish I knew
"Why she's changed and how to navigate the situation"
If I could tell you one thing
"Be cautious of friends who become overly critical and distant"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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friendship Category
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friendship decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
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