ParentingMental Health
#RI-6aeff5e8·4 months ago·
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“Signing child over to state”
What Actually Happened
My mentally ill child's behavior is unbearable. He's violent, manipulative, and destroys property. His siblings are terrified. We've tried all therapies and meds, but nothing works. He's currently in psych care for the 6th time in 2 years.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew when to stop trying and accept that my child needs long-term care."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't wait until it's too late. Seek help early and exhaust all options before considering giving up custody."
Regret Index
10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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Parenting Category
141
Parenting decisions logged. Avg regret 5.6/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
52%
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