ParentingDad Guilt
#RI-6ac63d78·7 months ago·
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“Prioritized chores over daughter's needs”
What Actually Happened
Felt guilty for prioritizing chores over daughter's needs, causing her distress
What I wish I knew
"Kids' perspectives can be vastly different from ours"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Ask kids for their perspective to change your outlook"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Parenting Category
141
Parenting decisions logged. Avg regret 5.6/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
52%
of Parenting decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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