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#RI-6abe50f2·5 months ago·
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Lookback: 5 years of marriage

“desired more open conversations”

Lying about past and contacting ex damaged marriage

What I wish I knew
"You could have been more honest with me"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly to avoid resentment"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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