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#RI-6a6b03c1·7 months ago·
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Lookback: Months

Approaching inevitable breakup conversation

Boyfriend has been pulling away for months, avoiding conversations about future and relationship

What I wish I knew
"To initiate a conversation before feeling stuck in limbo"
If I could tell you one thing
"Consider initiating a conversation in person, rather than over phone or long-distance"
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7/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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