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#RI-6abba90d·3 months ago·
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Lookback: 6 months after separation

“Decided not to confront ex partner about affair”

Ex partner had an affair; I kept it a secret to navigate financial separation

What I wish I knew
"If confronting her would've caused more harm"
If I could tell you one thing
"Consider the potential consequences of revealing the truth"
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7/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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