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#RI-6ad44668·4 months ago·
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“Had sex with partner while asleep”

Woke up to partner having sex with me without consent

What I wish I knew
"Consent is not implied by sleep"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate boundaries and expectations clearly"
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10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
SettledMixedSevere

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relational Category
129
relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.7/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
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of relational decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.