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#RI-6aeaade3·3 months ago·
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Lookback: 2 months

“Talking to a girl on a trip with her gay best friend”

Discovered she's sharing a bed with her gay best friend on a one-on-one trip

What I wish I knew
"How to communicate discomfort without being controlling"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate boundaries clearly and respectfully"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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