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#RI-69aa8584·5 months ago·
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“My boyfriend wants me to plan group hangouts with my friends”
What Actually Happened
He constantly pressures me to plan hangouts with my friends, but refuses to plan with his own friends, making me feel responsible for his boredom
What I wish I knew
"He has difficulty relating to his own friends"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate your feelings and set boundaries to avoid feeling pressured"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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