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#RI-6a6b0730·9 months ago·
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“Boyfriend prefers masturbation over sex”

Found out boyfriend watches porn and masturbates while trying to fix sex life

What I wish I knew
"He's been struggling with low libido due to stress"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly about sex and intimacy needs"
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Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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