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#RI-6aca2b69·5 months ago·
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Lookback: 1 year after marriage

“Married my husband despite past infidelity”

My husband still looks at his ex's lingerie portfolio and is overly flirty with other women, making me feel third-wheeled

What I wish I knew
"He wouldn't change his behavior even after marriage"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate boundaries clearly and don't marry someone with unresolved issues"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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